What I Want

Posted on July 26, 2012 by

Despite what you might think, I’m actually quite a homebody.  Whenever I travel I have certain requirements that I’ve learned really make the difference between a good trip and a disaster.  They’re not too much to keep me from experiencing the local culture, but they sure make life a lot easier when I’m trying to navigate a new culture, language, customs and country.

One of them is coffee.  I’m on the island of Java, but the hotel rooms only serve instant java, which makes my stash of American grounds a godsend.  After teaching all morning in the humidity, I’ve also felt grateful for the Starbucks in the mall adjacent to the hotel.

Another is proper clothing.  I like to be comfortable and appropriately dressed, which made packing for teaching in a Muslim country challenging.  I’m expected to cover to the elbow, below the knee, and have a high neckline.  Yesterday I made a fashion faux-pas and was required to don the school’s version of gym shorts – a kind of pant outfit called a yama.  I think they’re mainly used for some sort of yoga.

Reluctantly, I’ll admit I like to be connected.  Coming back to my hotel after a long day and finding Facebook messages and blog comments makes me feel like I’m not out here all alone, and the beauty of Skype and FaceTime has allowed me to see my children and keep me grounded.

Indonesia is a beautiful country, rich with traditions and hospitable people.  I’m not afraid to know what I want – and to ask for it. I think knowing what we need to be happy is important – and if it helps us experience the richness of another culture, all the better.

Jennifer Wolfe

Jennifer Wolfe, a writer-teacher-mom, is dedicated to finding the extraordinary in the ordinary moments of life by thinking deeply, loving fiercely, and teaching audaciously. Jennifer is a Google Certified Educator, Hyperdoc fanatic, and a voracious reader. Read her stories on her blog, mamawolfe, and grab free copies of her teaching and parenting resources.

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Comments: 6

  • Lindsey

    November 28, 2014

    I can so relate to this – even in the midst of the most extraordinary adventures, there are familiar things and necessities that really make my experience smoother. Much of what you say resonates. xox

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    • Jennifer Wolfe

      November 28, 2014

      Thanks, Lindsey. I think it’s the introvert in me trying to hang on while the world shows me what it has to offer…knowing what I want and need allows me to venture out of my comfort zone! xoxo

      Reply
  • Michael Ann

    July 27, 2012

    I think that is very smart to have some things from home and to keep your connections. I would want the same!

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    • Jennifer Wolfe

      July 29, 2012

      It helps…the internet here isn’t very developed or widespread. Wifi in the hotel room isn’t common, so it makes things a bit difficult but I’m managing.

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  • My Inner Chick

    July 26, 2012

    Beautifully Articulated, Mama W.

    How wonderful to immerse yourself in another culture…

    ….but perhaps even better, coming back HOME.

    Xxx

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    • Jennifer Wolfe

      July 29, 2012

      Yes, this is a wonderful experience but I’m ready to come back home! Only a few more days!

      Reply
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