Friday Photo: At the Center
Posted on October 6, 2012 by Jennifer Wolfe
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Posted on October 6, 2012 by Jennifer Wolfe
Posted on August 28, 2012 by Jennifer Wolfe
What Ovid said thousands of years ago really rings true to me today. I have to think about, plan, and prepare for relaxation. It doesn’t just happen for me. It takes work, but it’s worth it.
When we stop to relax, we realign ourselves. Suddenly we aren’t the passengers in our life anymore – we are in control of the car. We get to decide where we want to go in life, and we create new openings for things to happen.
Think of your life right now as a road trip. Are you jumping on the highway, car loaded down with everything you think you might possibly need? Do you have reservations for each leg of the journey, each night and every waking moment?
And then you get a flat tire. Or an engine that just quits. Maybe even a fender bender.
And then what? Road trip disrupted. Detour.
It’s the start of the school year. For most parents, that is something to look forward to – life gets a bit easier when the kids are out of the house, we’re not twisting our brains to come up with an exciting adventure for the day, and the nagging of teenagers who would rather sleep in than do their chores is a thing of the past.
For teacher parents, though, it’s a double edged sword. We don’t get to enjoy quiet moments anymore – when the kids are home, we’re rushing back from our classrooms, trying to get a fabulous meal prepared while simultaneously driving kids to sports, walking the dog (who is the most excited family member to see you), switching laundry, unloading the dishwasher and answering emails. Exhausting.
The way to survive, I’ve learned, is to plan some fun. Sometimes it’s something easy – taking an evening walk with a good friend or sharing a cup of coffee downtown. Laughter and snacks with a good glass of Sonoma biodynamic wine gives me something to look forward to after a long day of teaching middle school; if I’m lucky, I’ll squeeze a weekend trip to Sonoma, Sutter Creek, or Santa Cruz, even. I’ve been thrown by that ‘lack of AAA Roadside Life Service’ way too many times. I’m a natural born planner, I live by a schedule, and spend most of my day following a lesson plan – I can even tell you what the plans are for the entire week ahead. But that’s only at school.
I’m back on the treadmill. It’s not a bad workout – I kind of like it, actually. As long as I can train myself to stop once in awhile, jump off, get into the driver’s seat, and take off. Take a rest. No plans, just looking for a friend, some fun, and a great glass of wine.
Posted on August 11, 2012 by Jennifer Wolfe
Posted on August 5, 2012 by Jennifer Wolfe
The port survived Dutch battles and occupation as an international transit point for silk, tea, coffee, tobacco and spices. It also brought missionaries to spread the Buddhist, Hindu and Islamic faiths to Indonesia.
The port was crowded but felt safe. We were surprised to see other white tourists wandering around the stalls lining the harbor. Driving onto the shipping area allowed us a real treat – we bravely walked a gangplank high above the water to board a working ship. The crew allowed us to go all over the ship, which was hauling cement to Kalimantan. We felt like we had stepped back in history as we climbed around and eventually came across the Sulawesi captain, dressed only in a sarong, who wasn’t overly excited to see us on his ship. We were particularly pleased that our host summoned us the courage to board the ship as well – she was terribly frightened because she cannot swim.
Posted on August 2, 2012 by Jennifer Wolfe
We enjoyed what Yuna called ‘common
food’-several types of mango, Durian fruit, dates, green beans, potato coconut
chili chowder, rice and fried tofu and tempeh.
I’m surprised at actually how little they eat after fasting all day; we
keep expecting them to gorge themselves.