Sunset and full moon over Lake Tahoe

When it’s over,
I want to say:
All my life I was a bride
Married to amazement.
I was the bridegroom,
Taking the world into my arms.

When it’s over,
I don’t want to wonder
If I have made my life
Something particular, and real.
I don’t want to find myself
Sighing and frightened,
Or full of argument.

I don’t want to end up simply
Having visited this world.

~ Mary Oliver

I love, love, love Mary Oliver, and this poem – well, it is just perfect for right now. I don’t want to live my life wondering if I lived as a visitor in the world; I want to live a life of presence, of joy, of amazement.

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Comments: 11

Shahzad

January 4, 2024

Mary Oliver’s words resonate deeply, urging us to embrace life with awe and presence. Your affinity for her poetry is evident, and this piece beautifully encapsulates the essence of cherishing every moment, avoiding a life merely as a visitor. Inspiring reflections, thank you for sharing.